Find the struggle that's right for you. What's worth struggling for? Say no to those that don't make you happy.
Measure success against proper values instead of comparing yourself to others.
Pleasure and material success are shitty. Worthwhile: based in reality, helpful to society, immediate and controllable effect. Honesty, creativity, generosity, humility.
Take full responsibility for life. You'd run a marathon if you were forced to do it. You're not a victim, take control.
People tend to flee things that threaten identity. More of a hindrance because you won't try for fear of failure. Use Buddhism to discover identity is an illusion.
Accept mistakes and insecurities. Ask whether you're wrong.
Humans are terrified of dying. We try to build legacy, causing stress. Don't give a fuck. Focus on here and now.
